Quote: My question is: isn't this more or less what a lot of us are faced with? It's not as clear cut as Bolete's but the outcome is similar. Replace lesbian with LD and cutting all sexual ties with most. Less absolute but nearly as painful.
Well, for 21 years I was one of y'all. And in a lot of ways, the dynamics have not changed that much. Except that both of us are now experiencing strong sexual temptation, not just me.