Quote: partly because I'm telling the part of the truth that the rest of y'all aren't telling.
I have to say I'm dead curious to know what you meant by this.
After I started taking a strong stand on the sex issue my H once said to me "I'm actually kind of relieved to find out that there is something that would make you want to leave our relationship.". Have you ever given your W reason to believe that you would be okay without her? Sometimes the love that seems to make you strong is really the crutch that keeps you weak or the cage that keeps you trapped.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver