So, did she ever like sex, with anyone? I am wondering about your choice of the word aversion. That is such a strong word. I think about the commercials for fear factor and those people eating yucky things. I have an aversion to tobacco smoke, it makes me cough, sneeze, and feel so nauseated. I will get up and move if a smoker sits next to me. So, is this what you mean when you say she has an aversion to sex with you?

It sounds as if you made peace with this years and years ago. At least have agreed that living with your best friend is what you want. You sound content and in love.


Arguing with reality is like trying to teach a cat to bark—hopeless. (Byron Katie)