Quote: Sexual orientation has less to do with who you can enjoy having sex with and more to do with who you can "fall in love" with.
In some ways, that part hurts even more. I'm aware that my wife's love is very real, but she is not and never has been deeply attracted to me the same way I am to her. I didn't know that in our early marriage (I'm good at projection and denial).
Quote: I know that one of the reasons I had sex with my female friend in college was because I had a crush on her boyfriend.
I can't imagine having sex with a guy because I had a crush on his girlfriend. Are straight women more likely to feel this way than straight men?
