OK, she's lesbian. Now what?

[bolete]

Just a reminder that what makes her a lesbian is that she SAYS she's a lesbian. All the other details are just additional info.

Absolutely. And you think *I* would have any credibility on this subject anyway?

Even on subjects I have a lot of first hand experience in, I've had little luck telling anybody what their feelings do and do not mean.

Now trying to figure out what she *means* when she says she's a lesbian, that's an interesting process...she's still figuring it out herself.

Jonathan