Quote: But don't you find it suspicious that she is basing her entire orientation on the fact that she likes looking at naked pictures of women?
I guess I don't see that she's doing that. It may be the easiest piece to verbalize, or the revelation that opened her eyes, but I don't get the feeling that she's so simplistic in her thinking.
This may not be true for everyone, but for me, being a lesbian means wanting to be with a woman. For Jonathan's sake, I'm worried that's where W's evolution will lead her.
I don't agree that she's holding his sexuality hostage any more than he is holding hers. Everybody is an adult and has to make their own choices. It pains me to think how difficult those choices are.
I do agree with everything else you say, especially in wishing them the best.