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If I needed a lawyer, I would more than likely choose a male.



You better hope that Ms.HD never starts reading this board or you are in BIG TROUBLE.

I like what StubbornDyke said about Bolete's wife being a lesbian because she says she's a lesbian. This is common sense talking. Your sexual identity is exactly what you identify it to be. How much flexibility you have in self-identifying probably depends on all sorts of genetic, hormonal, psychological, cultural and environmental factors. One reason I know that I am strongly heterosexual is that I did have quite hot sex with a very attractive woman who I cared about as a friend and yet I had no desire to carry on a sexual relationship with her. One reason I know that I am high drive is that I can have quite hot sex even with another woman. I could self-identify as bisexual because I know I can enjoy sex with another woman but I don't self-identify as bisexual because I have no desire to form sexual relationships with other women and I am generally not sexually attracted to women. I like seeing beautiful women naked, like HP said, because I like seeing all sorts of unique and beautiful things, but I don't have the urge to touch or be touched like I do when I'm in the presence of a sexually attractive man.

"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver