But don't you find it suspicious that she is basing her entire orientation on the fact that she likes looking at naked pictures of women?
If I were bolete, I'd be trying to gently continue the conversation to get at the heart of the matter. Especially since they are committed to staying married. If she was wanting out of the M, I'd say more power to her..but she's not. She is holding his sexuality hostage along with her own. So she'd better be DAMN sure that she is correct in her thinking and is not letting naivete lead her into a declaration of something she's not. Being aroused by naked chicks does not a lesbian make. For the record, I do trust that what she is saying is true, but I also think she needs to begin thinking towards the next step: How will I live as a WIFE to a MAN while internally being attracted to women? She can't have it both ways, I guess is what my gut feeling is.
However, it's not my M and I wish the both of them the best of luck in whatever path they choose.
