I like to think of myself as fairly relgious. So how can a religious HD male survive in a sexless marriage? When a women forces chastity upon a HD christian male, she has just placed upon him an unbelievable burden and torment. Books have been written about the unbelieveable burden that men must carry. Women have no such burden, they have nothing in their body that PHYSICALLY drives them to sin in such a manner. I personally view my marriage as a very unpleasant test. How do you survive? What need is she actually meeting for you? The only need my wife meets is she cooks me dinner, and that is only worth about 5% of my overall needs, the remainder of my marriage is UNPLEASANT at best.