If I wanted to be legalistic and technicql, I'd say she is maybe subject to epithumea but not porneia. She's fantasized some, but never done nothing. And I don't think that's grounds for divorce for anyone trying to seriously follow the Bible.
Why do we want to stay together? She's the witness to my life, the person I talk to instead of writing a journal, I'm delighted whenever I see her, when I'm gone I long to come home to her. I'm hopelessly in love with her.
So the legalistic discussion in the first paragraph may not be terribly relevant ;->
