AltDave, Would your wife admit this? I doubt I would unless I was in a very open relationship (not open to others, just 100% honest). That would be bombshell, for sure. Geez there are people who won't even admit to themselves.
I noticed that both my ex and current W have checked out hot women, just like I would. I will watch my W's eyes run up and down their bods, and I wonder what she is thinking. Probably what HP is. Doubt she is bi, but yah never know.