What happens when you ask her? If she has those leanings, what would keep her from telling you?
She says "nope".
The big question for me is "why would I want to consider / believe this about her?" I think the answer is somewhere in the fact that a sexual orientation issue creates a really tidy answer to the HD/LD thing rather than forcing one to introspect or work on the marriage...it's an easy answer rather than a tough, drawn out one. I'm sort of envious of bollette because this revelation, while bad, torpedoed the gridlock and removed all those feelings of uncertainty.
Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time
-Steven Wright
