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Though the issue is old, W's revelation is fresh. Understand that her thoughts will evolve and be prepared that they may go in a direction you don't like. As her brain settles around this, I wouldn't be surprised if she realizes that she doesn't want to live without sex either.




Yes, it could happen. But as long as it hasn't happened yet, I'm not going to throw out what we have now because of fears of what might happen in the future.

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How old are the kids?




19, 17, and 7. But I'm not staying in the marriage because of the kids, and neither is she.

Jonathan


HD Male, married 20 years, 3 daughters