OG_Lou, no other woman is involved, and my wife *is* interested in working on the relationship, just not the sexual relationship.
I think it's possible to be HD without "getting any". And extremely frustrating. I spend a lot of my life feeling like I'm gonna explode. If there were a morally neutral way to have sex that didn't endanger our relationship or require me to be dishonest, I'd be on it in a minute.
Honestly, I've slipped up a few times, I've had two affairs and once went to a prostitute. This isn't easy for me at all.
