My wife is feeling a lot less oppressed now that she has a reason to not want sex with me. We didn't have sex before, only the reasons have changed.
Yeah, it really hurts, and it's going to keep hurting. But I don't cut off my head because I have a headache. I can't see any good way to satisfy my sexual desires without endangering the relationship - it's gonna be tough. But it's been tough, it's not like we've been having sex before she decided she is a lesbian...
