My wife came out to me last Tuesday. We'd basically had a sexless marriage for 22 years, with 4-5 years between sex in the last 15 years.
I still love her, we're emotionally close, we still cuddle, we've been witness to each other's lives for 22 years. We want to stay together.
Is there any way we can each put a positive spin on our sexuality in the marriage? She's not going to stop being lesbian - we were looking at some pictures of naked women yesterday, and she's *never* responded to me the way she responded to those pictures.
