Thanks to everyone for sharing their time and experience. Here's the sitch. We have been married 30 y. My W is the sweetest human being you could imagine. She is has a great appearance. I would rather die than hurt her. We are in love and really are great together in every other way. I have so much to be thankful for that I am almost embarrassed to use up your time. My W has virtually no libido. She is so selfless she has never said no to me. She has no fantasies, erotic dreams or desire for sex. She sometimes enjoys it once we get going and has the big O. She wants to feel desire and I want to feel desired. We have been to Drs. and she has taken enough testosterone to go off the scale. We have read books galore. I guess my question boils down to the very first one. Will it ever happen? Has it ever? How?
