The books are in the relationship section of the bookstore.
If you don't think telling is right then don't . We just wanted you to know that most affairs are not total secret and because you ended it there is the chance that OW will tell someone who will tell your wife if she didn't want it to end. Protect your wife and children from this at all cost. Not saying she will but you do run the chance of it happening. I hope and pray that it all works out for you. Keep on working on your marriage and yourself.
I wish my H had tried but the OW won out in the end. He loves her so I'm disposable as is our marriage. D day is in a month. I still pray and hope something will change but don't hold out much chance of it. Best of luck.
