Hey Darren! sounds like you are doing well. i'm not going to tell you much about the telling, because I don't know what to advise you, except to say that I'd be surprised if you W didnt feel something was "different" with you/between the 2 of you.
I'm glad to hear you say that you have no feelings for ow, that will certainly make it easier for you to disconnect. However, I have to warn you, from my experience, she will most likely do all kinds of weird things to keep you in her orbit...playing on your feelings of guilt, especially. So, be careful, be ready, be firm.
