given_up. There are a lot of good people here wanting to help up.
given_up wrote --------------- Yes, he threatened me a few times that if I decided to divorce him, he would do everything possible to make the divorce as painful as it can be. ----------------
Is your H name Clark XYZ from Montana? If it is, my daughter went out with him about about 5 years age. She had to get a restraining order to stop his antics and threats. If it is not Clark XYZ he sounds like his perverbial twin.
--------------------- There are few things that I can not discuss here, but I do depend on him in a certain way -----------------
You get the best advice if you tell us why you "depend" on your H. Please explain what you mean by "I depend on him." We have heard it all and are not surprised at the reasons and answers people post. Someone has been through something simmilar to what you are going through now.
