Quote: but each time he insisted on me coming back to bed with him, since "it is not normal for spouses to sleep in separate rooms" (!!! And not having sex is normal!!!!).
Did you say that to him...or just think it?
With my LDH I've come to learn that much of it is a control issue. I don't know if he's aware he uses it as control, my hunch is he does but he wouldn't admit it.
I noticed though that you mentioned you two separated for a year and he asked you to remain faithful. I guess my reaction if my LDH did that to me was...what's the point?
I have to tell you...there are many things that you're posting that are sending up HUGE red flags for me. Are you sure there's not someone else in the picture?
