Quote: What is it that you want to hear from the people here? You seem to be in 'get out' mode. Yet you are here. Why?
She answered that question in her first post, "is anyone here in the same shoes as me?" She is tired of feeling so alone with this horrible situation... I understand that perfectly.
If you want to talk more about the situation just to get it off your chest, please go ahead... it's awful when everything around you seems to say that others are happy in their relationships, and you are harboring this secret.
I would suggest you find counseling for yourself to get up the "oomph" you need to leave him. From what you have said, there doesn't seem to be much worth saving...
There is NOTHING wrong with you for being upset about this situation! When he tells you it is normal for a married couple NOT to have sex, he is wrong. He is misguided, misinformed, and lying. Does he drink or do any other kind of substance?
