Nicegal, no, he has never been married before. He told me he was waiting for the "right" girl.
Wildebube, I understand that you are here to try to save your marriages, and God knows I want you to. I just do not know where else to go for help. I try to be strong, I bury myself in work, but every night when I come home, I see my husband who is very happy with the way things are... And who does not hear me when I try to tell him how unhappy I am.
Greeneyedlass, I applaud you. I wish I had guts to confront me husband they way you did. Maybe that would change something, but right now I think it is not necessary.
Paul, I know this sounds terrible, but I forgave him for being abusive. That happened when I still hoped that oneday our life will change for better. That does not mean that I forgot the pain though...
