Quote: I realized that the only thing keeping me from *thinking* my sex life was great was my lack of security in the current sex life and the lagacy of a crappy one.
I do think it's important that we HD do our part in moving forward by trying to work on trust and resentment. However, I can't really do this as long as my H is not consistent in his efforts to change. Just telling me that he wants to change is not enough. If my H was a gambler the message he'd be giving me right now would be "I love you and I know I have to quit gambling but the race on Saturday is a sure thing so I'll quit on Monday".
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
