I was nerdy, am still pretty nerdy and have an SSM. You do the math. It's not really a question of whether I could "get laid". It's more that I didn't do my homework when it came to marrying right.
Regarding obsession, I know I am a product of my family, where there was too much drinking and a lot of depression. Although I don't drink much, I do obsess over, for example, eating. I also obsess over things that are really nothing. I'm am a master of creating the worst case scenario.
A major aspect of an addiction is that it interferes significantly with one's normal functioning.
Isn't it weird that, now that we live in a society that provides such plenty, we should find so scarce something that has been available, and freely given, throughout human history? * sigh *
