I think that this is a very interesting idea, that is, using sex as a method of coping much in the way the some people use alcohol. I am not sure if sex inside a commited relationship is harmful. After having sex, I feel all warm and happy and close with my lover, and after drinking I feel yucky and want every one to shut up and get away from me. Sex, relieves tension and alcohol gives me a headache.

I think I asked on another thread just what is considered a sexual addiction? Whacky stuff like spending zillions on sex, or doing dangerous things ( like unprotected sex) aside, just when do you think it crosses the line between healthy and a little scary?

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