After my birthday of sex and drinking, it occurred to me that my H regards drinking in much the same way that I regard sex. For instance, my H told me that he only wants to have sex when he is in a very good mood and able to celebrate life. I only like to drink if I'm very relaxed on the weekend or at celebratory occasions. My H can always come up with a good reason to have a beer- bad day at work, football's on, first day of spring etc, just bored etc.. I would regard all of these as good reasons to have sex myself. So, if my H is an alcoholic, does that make me a sex addict?
BTW: I also had the thought that when my H said I was more sexy when I was playful, I think he meant I was more sexy when I was drunk.
Second Topic:
A while back my sister and I were having a convo about sex. I claimed that if I was male, I would have had a lot more sex over the course of my life. My sister said I was wrong because I was a nerd and male nerds never get laid.
During the fight in which my H claimed I wasn't attractive enough for 2x weekly sex, he also said that I was too smart/nerdy to be sexy.
This also seems to go along with the fact that he finds me more sexy when I am drunk and therefore relatively stupid.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
