I have a couple of other points that I need to make.
If you do set real boundaries, he is likely to pop a cork, then blame you for all the relationship troubles.
Redirection of blame is very common in situations like yours. It makes for a good excuse to continue with incorrect behaviors, after all, it is the other spouses' fault.
Just a 'heads up'.
-NOPkins-
Oh, and Mr. Corri, if you are indeed, reading here, your wife loves you. Now would be a good time for you to reassess your marriage and see what a good deal you really have at home, and what you are potentially giving up. I think you are looking in the wrong place to fill your void.
Your wife is a hell of a catch, you had better take care of your home life.
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
