My H and I have a drink together several times a week. It is so nice.
We started doing it when we had kids..as a way to reconnect..a solely grown up thing we did with each OTHER.
With our lives as busy as they are (he works 60 hours a week also, plus..cough cough..church! Can't forget that:) there is no time for "us" activities. Hell I am barely squeaking out the tiniest plan for Honey Night, per Corri's advice, and even then I scrap it if something else comes up--as it did last night. So this one thing...sharing a beer together...turning into beer snobs...shoot, I even bought a kit to learn how to homebrew...this keeps us connected in a very minute way. But take lots of these little connections and you are talking about a couple who SHARES things and has common interests. At least that's my theory--I'll let you all know how that turns out, of course.
Corri, glad to see you're feeling better today. I think your plan of: making your feelings known, showing concern for his mental and physical wellbeing, and supporting him thru his decision makin is a good one. What else can you do? As far as the lotsa sex, wellllllllllll, you know that Dr. Honey is always going to prescribe that, but I'm not sure that it will have the right effect in this case. Proceed at your own discretion.
