I have no doubt whatsoever that his identity and self-worth are tied up in his job. I admire his work ethic and his professionalism. He's one smart cookie.
He's also a workaholic.
Of course taking the job is his decision to make, but his decisions affect me and the kids, so yes, I believe I have a say in it... just like I spoke with him before I up and quit my job.
Quote: ...if you express yourself this way at home, I wonder... when your H shot off in your mouth and then made a career decision without consulting you-- was that his way of saying he's tired of you busting his balls?
Actually, I believe it was his way of saying he didn't care one whit for what I thought, and in a marriage, yeah, I got a problem with that.
