Oh my gosh, I gotta defend myself here. I have NEVER asked my h if he loved me or the kids more. He would hem and haw and ultimately be unable to answer that question. HE is the one who said that he loves me and I love the kids. And even that was not in a pissy way; just an observation about life.
I do have a belief that the general order of marital life should go: God, spouse, children. I could care less what others believe. My husband SAYS he lives his life this way but his actions have not (until this past week) reflected that.
So I can empathize with Corri in the sense that here you have two people who SAY they are in agreement as to what their life priorities should look like and yet the fellas are going off doing their own thang. Very frustrating.
