Corri, I am a workaholic too. For me to feel good about myself I have to get a certain amount and quality work done every day / week or I feel like a partial failure. MY W's opinion is to work just enough to get by and depend on others if she needs help, after all It's the H's job to support the family and my mental state is to do the best and most I can. I am learning to balance my work and my R better.
Nop has a very good idea, considering Mr corri and I are high achivement workers. This is something I have to consider myself. ------------ Maybe your questions to him should be directed toward understanding his need to work so hard, and helping him understand why you think he shouldn't. --------------