I agree completely with everything you said. In fact, I could have said them myself. I just know that I have the tendency to let the provider function take over. My natural inclination is to be the provider at home and the go-to guy at work. But I’m also well aware that there is big trouble down that path. But since I know that I have this tendency, and since I understand it all too well, I just wanted to try to explain those feelings to Corri. Maybe I was a little too strong; IRL I really do think that I do a pretty good job of balancing - most of the time.