I wish, damn, I really wish, after all the great advice you've given us, that I could give some here, but I don't know what to say. I understand the feeling of not knowing what to do all too well.
What if you did start making 'exit noises', would that 'wake' H up??
Maybe we should just have a large pity party, feel sorry for ourselves for a while until we get sick of that and decide what to do.
Hey, I've still got that sauna downstairs, and there's lots of beer in the cooler (left over from a party this summer, neither of us really drink it much, so you all are welcome to take some!) I suspect too that it's warmer here, and less snow than what a lot of you guys have right now, so come on over
