Trying to explain sexual fullfillment to ND women is about like trying to explain a 4 dimensional object in a 3 dimensional universe. In her universe, she has no concept of desire. She makes statements like "You just want sex". She thinks I need sex, she has no clue as to what sexual fulfillment really is. She thinks that as long as she provides her body for my use once a month, she is doing her part. At the same time, I can not list EVERYTHING that I want her to change, because at this point, the list from her perspective would be unattainable. So I can't scare her off with all of my wants at this point.
And the worst part of all, whenever we have tried even simple things, like a kiss, it is always obvious that she is patronizing me, she is not doing it because she wants to. And using my wife in these ways is VERY unappealing.
