Understanding your spouse

[NotATLDave]

like some of us, you're probably getting tired of the place CeMar is stuck in...

bingo...but only because I care.

I wish, all the way down to the pit of my soul, that CeMar will find a woman to have a physical affair with. It would even be better if he got caught. A situation like that would torpedo their gridlock overnight and he wouldn't need to muster up the strength to have a serious convo with the W...it would just happen.

Call me an immoral a$$, but If I didn't have the type of progress I had within the last year, I would probably be posting this from my mistress' home instead of mine (where my wonderful naked wife is sleeping after having hot, acrobatic sex with me an hour ago. btw I didn't abondon her...she asked me to clean my office before the trash guys come tomorrow).

Actually, this whole process was a calculated move. I knew my dad was going to die last year and that it was going to be very stressful. They say that a death of a parent, a divorce, and a new job are in the top 5 most stressful things you can experience. My new years resolution for '04 was to....
1. Get the R back or get out
2. Make my job fun again or get out.
3. Spend more time with my parents.
I wanted to lump it all together into 1 nasty, crappy year so that I could simply get it all over with.

The reason I'm telling this story is that I think this might be a good strategy to break the gridlock and grow by using other life events to affect change in other aspects of your life. When a parent dies, you are going to change whether you like it or not. It's like trying to push a heavy box..once it gets moving it's much easier to turn it and manipulate it in other directions.