Alas! Life! People do change. Often sex drives change especially as people get older and hormones change.
Did you marry her for just her HD? If so, I am sorry. Certainly there were other qualities too. Perhaps if you appreciate those other qualities, then she will come to the place to be like Mrs. Nop and make love to her husband because she loves him and choses to do so. NOt just because hormones are there. That to me is a much greater love and should be appreciated by the HDH. That is, if they can get together and have sex.
I guess that if we meant your vows till death to you part then we have to figure out how to make it work.
I look at it like "I made this bed and I have to lie in it". And not just survive but be happy. And MANY days that is a choice!
I am a LDW and we do have our issues too. We all do.
