Quote: We all grow and change. When we hold our S to their past behavior we limit them to that behavior.
What if we liked our spouse the way they were?
Quote: Really learning to accept the other person as they are (like it or not we married it) is huge.
Are we supposed to accept our spouse AFTER they change to something we don't like? For example, I married my wife because I liked the way she was at the time (HD). But now she is ND which means a complete personality change which is NOTHING like the person I married.
