Lnl: It seems to me you are receving big baby steps from your h... he is wanting both of you (although he works a lot trying to show you is all about D), he is enjoying a lot sharinh and talking with you... he needs you at least as a friend... but you know what... thats so important...!!... continue doing the great job you are doing... it is amazing how you are handling the OWs issue... it seems to me that on the final (no matter what final will be) you will be the winner...!! Andrea