Sounds like he's a whole lot more open to being friends with you. And maybe more?
Anyway, great job on listening!
Your D acted out something D10 told me awhile back. She told me if her dad and I reconciled, she would be jealous. I was very shocked, until she explained why. She said that over the past 2 years, she had grown very accustomed to being the sole object of attention by either me or her dad--without having to share us.
So it looks like your D9 has some similar feelings. They're nothing to fret about, though. Change is always scary.
Glad you had a good visit.
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."