I don't know about that, Slowly.... but thanks for the thought.
OK, so I sent the card thingy yesterday and didn't receive the confirmation that H had viewed it till this morning.
Then, half way though the morning I saw that I had a new email from H. I have to admit, I was nervous. I didn't read his email till all my lessons were over, as I didn't want to be in a funk during them due to a bad reaction.
So, in my mind I was turning over all the possiblities - a polite thanks, nothing, an enthusiastic reponse, an angry one, cancelling my invitation up to his place as I just didn't get it that he doesn't ever, ever, ever, want to get back together with me, etc etc etc.... You know the script.
So, eventually I looked at the email, and H says he couldn't view the card as he couldn't allow the site to install a heap of cookies on his computer, but (as the card company has the word 'rude' in its title) he said, "I hope it was suitably direct and rude :-)"
By golly! H doesn't usually even do emoticons!
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates