I do know what you mean, but sometimes, the utter ridiculousness of sitting through hours of H's pronouncements, many of which are baseless, gets a little tiring! And it IS also so much about HIM HIM HIM!
This particular story was not about disputing his feelings - he talked about showing something to his father, when his father was already long dead, so he couldn't have done it. H didn't take it badly when I pointed it out to him, but I thought it was an example of the many lapses in memory that he seems to have these days.
He often talks about thinks we did or said with such vagueness, one wouldn't think we had been married for ten years and apart for only two. Of course, from H's perspective, he has lived those two years 'with' two other women, so his experiences have been totally different from mine. I am still in the family home, with our child, and not with any other man, so my life hasn't changed as much as his has. But it hurts when he is SOOOO vague about *US* things.
Should I butt in more with stuff about ME ME ME?
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
