I was thinking about H throughout the time I have known him, not just the last few years of hell.
Like I said, some (many) of the traits he strikingly has, but he doesn't have all of them, not even 90% of either PA or narcissist, so perhaps he is just a mixture like the rest of us??
Anyway, I am not sure if labeling is the way to go. Nothing is as clear cut as that in the end...
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
