A BIG baby step?

[Livnlearn]

I would really appreciate some perspectives on this. I can feel my PMA and resolution to act 'as if' slipping the more I think of this situation.

See, this project of H's is related to my counrty of origin, and he no doubt wants my feedback from that perspctive. But I don't really feel like collaborating, even minimally, on something that OW2 also has a hand in. H is really having his cake, eating it, enjoying it etc.

I imagine OW2 is basking in the glow of being the 'winner' in H's circular, the one who is 'most attractive' to H...

Funnily, last year when H confided about OW1, she was the one who was the 'mostest' - most compatable in bed, felt that 'connection' with her etc etc. Now it is OW2 who is the bees knees, and OW1 has been relegated to being a mere 'sister'! LOL! Livnlearn, of course, is way down the line, being merely the 'mother of his child' and 'wife' and 'oldest friend'...

Actually, I am beginning to think that OW2 is some kind of a fraud, more and more. There are things that H has told me about her, that somehow just don't quite add up. And considering he told me that my 'not working' was what killed his love for me, it seems he has 'helped' OW2 with money and he can't understand why 'such an intellegent woman' is so poor... So many 'bad things' happen to OW2, poor soul. Hmmmmm.

It looks like H is all about his ambition at the moment. Family, responsibilties, kid, committment, all come in the way of his ambition. But he does need an ally, an aid to all this, just someone who won't 'pressure' him.

When is he going to grow up?

Livnlearn