Thanks for popping in - you've been away for long periods from this BB, haven't you?
Now for a little update -
Uuuuuuuuuuurk!
H rings this evening, and asks if I have had a look at his project. I tell him I am part way though reading the many pages of it. It needs my concentration to really think about what I am reading. H asks what I think and we have a long conversation about it, about half an hour. He does most of the talking and explaining of points.
At one point he says that OW2 is also helping him on this project Urrrk and yuck! I feel like a pony hictched up with another one to a two horse cart with H at the reins. I can understand that she has helped in the past, but it turns my stomach that she is still helping now, and he still wants my input as well, like we are all friends in one big happy family.
On the other hand, bridge building and H reaching out is a golden opportunity. No doubt if he HID the fact that OW2 was anywhere in the picture, even as a friend, I would be thinking less of him for that. At this stage I can see that H is still clueless about how I feel in all of this mess.
Thoughts?
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
