YOU decide if and when it is time to end your marriage. That is entirely up to you. I am certainly not going to look down on you for trying to recover your marriage.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.