I'm sure those of you who have read my thread think I'm crazy for trying to continue my marriage, but my H exhibited virtually none of these traits when I married him. That also applies for a big chunk of our marriage. I could twist some of them to *make* them fit, for example, he doesn't get along well with his mother but he has always had a relatively peaceful relationship with her.
Just had to say that, in my defense.
Slowly all the roles we act out become our Identity,
And in the end we are what we pretend to be.
-Jerry Cantrell
