Quote: wow you just described my hubby to a tee lol. I saw all the warning signs. was going to leave him but he decided to seek counceling. now he isn't. and is getting worse. I finally just gave up and now I am happy. I see now I was dumb for marrying him. Our marriage isn't even going to last a year.
Glad to hear you had the strength to get out, and glad to see you are happy. You were not dumb for marrying him, you were looking for something, you thought he could give it to you.
I would say that if you have at this point realize what is going on, and have the strength to walk away, that you are pretty smart.
Be sure to take care of yourself, even as you get out. It may not be as easy as you think.
