The list was on the internet. I just thought that some of us here might see some basic flaws that would be difficult to overcome or we were overlooking, hoping things will change, but we need to be hit with a 2X4 to see them.
I have read some sad stories about some stupid things an errant spouse has done to the M and the betrayed spouse wants their errant spouse back.
I am not advocating DB should not be used in most cases. Just suggesting some M's are not worth saving. Just do not like one spouse being taken advantage of most of the time. (OW/OM #3 and you still want him/her back. Please don't say you like the pain.)
Love is blind sometimes. Just a little light on some dark traits.
