Quote: It is very difficult to do consistently, but you will only look attractive to him when you are strong, confident, mysterious and fun to be around.
Yes! You have to turn it on, but it does work. I see it in my own sitch. Be positive, detach and be supportive, GAL, feed the WAS tiny little nuggets of WoW! that's happening in your life, but forget to give some of the details so as not to satiate the WAS's knowledge of the new you. By your manner and actions show that you're happy and fulfilled, that you are your own source of happy energy, regardless of whether the WAS is with you or not. Cliched or not, you are the creator of your own life. And you will find bits of happiness as you go along. Life is like that.
You've heard all this before, as has everyone here. The difficulty comes from believing in this enough to take these steps to do it while your heart is screaming other feelings inside you. But if you were promised that you can't lose if you do it, would you dive in head first and do it? How about if you're promised that you'll lose out if you don't? Either way, do it, because you benefit no matter the final outcome. Time's a-wasting. It may not happen right away, but sooner or later, you may start to see little baby step results, and then you'll enjoy doing it more and more.
Think of what happens to a WAS when they start to be attracted again to their LBS. Getting attracted to someone is a no-brainer, it doesn't require any work or effort on the part of the person getting attracted. It can come to the point where the WAS is torn between the two people. That's gotta confuse the heck out of them. It may get to the point where your pull becomes more attractive, especially as the shine wears off the OP. Mix in a generous portion of patience and time and see what happens.
